This blog post is mainly focused on a couple that has to make a decision on whether or not they want to keep/have a baby that the woman is bearing or unfortunately abort it to keep themselves happy in the relationship.
The girl in the story, I would say is just like any other girl and reacting just like any other girl would if she’s bearing someone she loves baby and the significant other is showing signs that he doesn’t want to have a baby. She shows off as if she’s “fine”, when in reality she’s not. She’ll play along with agreeing with the man hoping that he’ll change his mind. Honestly, as much as she “plays” along with getting the abortion, I’m thinking that she will keep the baby and her and the man won’t be together. They’re both not on the same page whatsoever. I don’t believe she will stay with the man. I am actually going through a “character v. self” conflict right now of whether or not I want to stay in my relationship I’m currently in. We’ve been together for almost three years, but with a lot of ups and downs. I’ve been unhappy for a long time, the relationship doesn’t feel the same, and honestly we’re slowly becoming distant. Do I know what I want to do? Absolutely not. Its kind of hard thinking about leaving someone you love and care about so much to make yourself happy. I feel like its selfish staying with him and me leaving him also for my well being. So currently I am going through a mess of emotions and constantly wondering how and when I’m going to come up with my decision.
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Julia Thornton
9/29/2017 11:40:53 am
I agree with you about how you think the woman keeps the baby. I think she would give up the man for the baby just like you think too. With your relationship, i think it may be time to move on. I don't want to sound rude or getting into your business or anything, but you admitted that you are unhappy. Of course leaving a relationship that you have been in for a long time will be hard, but you will over come it. I believe that it is better to be happy in life over anything. Whether you decide to continue with the relationship or not, i do not think that either way is selfish. If you need an improvement, then that's what you need. I think you should do what your heart tells you and do what you think is best for yourself.
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Regina King
10/2/2017 12:35:51 pm
Hi Teresa,
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10/3/2017 09:27:42 am
I went through the same thing with an ex. We both knew how toxic our relationship was, but neither of us wanted to leave. Eventually, neither of us were happy or comfortable. I was battling with my sexuality and he wanted to meet new people. Even though it was hard we had ended things and occasionally hooked up for the helluva it. After time passed we drifted apart but, every-so-often would check up on each other. I want you to know it's okay to be selfish. It helps you learn about yourself, love yourself, and grow as an individual.
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Walter Foggy
10/3/2017 02:12:48 pm
I agree that she will keep her child. I feel like we saw from the same perspective. I hope your situation gets better and you make the decision that is best for you.
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